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Why Your Manifestations and Affirmations Aren’t Working!

 

I recently came across this term called “hot and cold manifestation” which is basically inconsistent manifestation. Something that’s about to happen serendipitously for you because you asked for it but then it fades away as soon and ends up not happening for you.

If you follow my blog, you’d remember the post I had written a few weeks back on the same – the corporate talk show manifesting and then getting cancelled in the last minute, and my fluctuating energies around the same.

And then many people keep complaining how they use affirmations in the morning or in the evening but they are not working for them.

Here are some reasons why your manifestations or affirmations aren’t working for you.

·       LACK OF BELIEF

People ask me whether to write their affirmations or say it out aloud, whether to write it on bay leaf or look in the mirror and say it. They ask me how many times should they say it.  Here’s the answer: it doesn’t matter. This is not a chemical formula that will work a certain way. It’s an energetic formula and hence, the only thing it needs of yours is your energy, your belief. Once you are in that energy or belief, it won’t even matter if you are not using affirmations. If you are using the affirmations, believe in them when you say them. Don’t just chant them. Act like you are already what you are saying you are. Trick your brain into believing it enough to manifest it. It’s like an incantation.

·       DOUBT

The energy of doubt kills manifestations. You may be feeling something and you’re almost about to get it. Stones are turning for you. And suddenly you doubt it. You wonder are all these things really happening for you. You question it. You want to give a reason that maybe it is a coincidence or because of something else. There you bring in the energy of doubt and the manifesting stops. The next day things are back to the same again.

·       WOW

Sometimes you receive your manifestations and you feel surprised. It’s so amazing for you that you can’t stop wowing. The energy of wow isn’t very conducive either since it brings in a sense of doubt or disbelief. It says you are so surprised that you can’t believe you received your manifestations. It says you really can’t believe the affirmations started working for you. So, don’t wow. Believe that it will happen for you, and so, when it happens, you are not surprised. You already believed that it will work. Why the surprise?

·       MISALIGNMENT

Being aligned with your inner self is necessary for faster manifestations. If you are not aligned, you’d probably even be confused with what you are really feeling inside. Rest and meditation help you in being aligned and mindful towards your inner self. Inner work makes you realize the above three points with ease without trying to decipher much into what you are feeling. The more inner work you do, the more you know your energies and the more you can manifest at the right time from the right state of mind.

·       OVERTHINKING

Imagine what will you do with the manifestation but not after it. Imagine what you are going to be like once you receive the manifestation. If it’s money, think how will you be, what will you wear, what will you eat, where will you go.

Don’t imagine what you’d do after your manifestation comes into actuality. Don’t think what will people say about it or how you’ll tell people. Don’t wonder if your relationships will improve or deteriorate. Overthinking is too much detailing that kills manifestations. We need to allow the Universe to play things out its own way. Don’t think how it will happen or when it will happen. Just trust that it will. The Universe has its own way of plating the dish. You can just order the dish and then wait for the Universe to cook it and serve it on a plate.

·       UNINSPIRED ACTIONS

The Universe rewards inspired actions towards your desires/manifestations. Take inspired actions. Actions that are uninspired are usually misaligned and may delay your manifestations or become reasons to create doubt in your about your abilities. Take inspired actions and the Universe will conspire to deliver to you what you want.

 

Happy Manifesting!

(Also don’t share a lot about your manifestations. Keep them to yourself. Others’ energies affect even if they don’t intend to. My coach says "Just for you, just for fun, don’t tell it to anyone." But I tell sometimes, especially to my clients. :-) )

Quote of the Day:

Paulo Coelho — ‘Don't say that again. Life might be listening, and give you less the next time.’



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