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[Learning the 5 elements of Intimacy is part of the course of The Foundation by Access Consciousness defined by Gary Douglas and Dain Heer. This article contains the writer's own thoughts, experiments and explanation of the same merged with the laws of manifestation and attraction. The writer took The Foundation class in December 2021. If you wish to take the course, find more about it here .] Why are so many people in unhappy relationships? And then why are so many people dating one person after another and never find the one person they are looking for? In this blog post, we are going to talk about all of this in detail. It was long due but better late than never. First and foremost, make a choice- do you truly want a romantic relationship or not? In 2020, I had a realization that I was always this woman who was in a loyal committed long-distance relationship. I made a choice to not choose one for a change. I made a decision to figure out who I am when I am not with someone else....

I am writing this because I'm angry and my anger is slowly receding. I want to write this before I lose my anger and my memory of the incident. I want to write this because once I write this, I will flush it out of my system too. There are inherent patriarchal remarks we have to walk through every day and it goes unnoticed. It's my last day at work today, having worked in an organization composing of 80% men above managers and maybe around 95% men as a whole, so I believe it is now safe to bring to notice some of the workplace remarks by men here: When a woman is angry about some work, men don't take a lot of time to jump to one of the two following conclusions- 1. If she is young/unmarried - she must be sexually frustrated / PMSing. 2. If she is older, above 45-ish - she must be going through menopause. Regarding PMSing and Menopause- I don't want to deny that hormones don't play a role in our emotions. They do. But concluding it like that in a workplace is totally...