Pens and Pages

 I am a public private person. It means although I am sharing so much on social media and gatherings, I still manage to retain my privacy on things I want to. A friend of mine who probably knows me the best amongst all my friends said to me on how even when he knows so much about me, he just knows only 20% of me. You are mysterious that way, he says. Another friend had said that although I keep in touch and we hang out he hardly knows what's going on in my life. Nobody actually does. I am comfortable with this style of living. I always have been.  Until I found out the term- Comfortable Distance last year in December during my Foundation classes. "Are you using Comfortable Distance to limit you?" was the question, I look back at my life and wonder. I wasn't always like this. I had my best friends and boy friends who knew everything about me and somehow those things didn't work out. I ended up becoming more mature, setting boundaries, releasing the need to have bes